tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17078165.post7847170902668375961..comments2023-11-02T10:35:00.867-05:00Comments on Phyllis Renée: small changes, big resultsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17078165.post-62308886706202862552007-11-09T13:07:00.000-06:002007-11-09T13:07:00.000-06:00I'm late, as usual, but wanted to say I think thes...I'm late, as usual, but wanted to say I think these things you are doing are great. If they speak to him and show him you love him, little things can make a huge difference!Recovering Soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14399363754265182865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17078165.post-71195246275157384992007-11-08T17:13:00.000-06:002007-11-08T17:13:00.000-06:00SM -- Thank you. There's so much I would still lik...SM -- Thank you. There's so much I would still like to say, but I guess I will save it for another time.<BR/><BR/>Biscuit -- I'm sorry you are going through hard times, but I'm glad I could maybe help. Even being able to recognize your faults is a huge step to making things better.<BR/><BR/>FTN -- It's so simple, but I had to get over the selfish side of me first. That was the hard part.<BR/><BR/>Desmond -- Hi. Thank you. Is it possible for a marriage to "sing?" That would be way cool. Right now I think it's at a humming stage.<BR/><BR/>Little Town -- Now I tried real hard not to make it sound as though I were pointing fingers or anything, so I hope that's not how it was taken. But like I told Biscuit, I'm all about sharing ideas.Phyllis Renéehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07091511889201839807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17078165.post-65886947347667652592007-11-08T13:50:00.000-06:002007-11-08T13:50:00.000-06:00Ok--point taken~!! When you stop & think, it real...Ok--point taken~!! When you stop & think, it really is easy to make little changes. And they have big impacts. Thanks for reminding me!!<BR/><BR/>And, yes, I do think that is an Okie term--you're probably going to hear alot of them from me. Not only Okie, but small town Okie!!!Little Town Big Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11546690682122855859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17078165.post-32893532025189708242007-11-07T15:54:00.000-06:002007-11-07T15:54:00.000-06:00Hi PhyllisThis really is a great post. And not so...Hi Phyllis<BR/><BR/>This really is a great post. And not so much for the specific things you're doing, but that you're making the effort. To go out of yourself, and give your love to your husband.<BR/><BR/>Marriage really sings when both of you are just 'all in' for the other, and that's really how it's meant to be. Marriage isn't 50/50, it's 100/100.<BR/><BR/>And the things you're learning here - about changing what you can actually change (ie, yourself, not him), and just loving him as best you can (of course, it's good that he's astute enough to catch on, and respond to your love) - those things are just wonderful to see. <BR/><BR/>This is real encouragement for all married folks who come in touch with it. Thanks for this. . .Desmond Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07829959101276150279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17078165.post-36549775514706035992007-11-07T13:57:00.000-06:002007-11-07T13:57:00.000-06:00What great little things to do! I think that we, a...What great little things to do! I think that we, as guys (and all spouses in general, really), like is when someone makes an effort. All the things you listed show someone making a real effort to show love and affection, and that's hugely important.FTNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00863217400079842687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17078165.post-73567808432960051732007-11-07T11:10:00.000-06:002007-11-07T11:10:00.000-06:00I could learn a lot from this. We are going throu...I could learn a lot from this. We are going through some very hard times, my fault.Biscuithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07214037983461918187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17078165.post-18265872314545570402007-11-06T22:28:00.000-06:002007-11-06T22:28:00.000-06:00I keep thinking this is such a great post and I wa...I keep thinking this is such a great post and I want to comment on it, and then I realize I can't think of anything to say. It is like you said all that needed to be said here (at least for me).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com